Wedding Details Link up!!!

It counts if I havent actually gotten married yet right LOL...Nothing like linking up with mega blogs that you stalk. Today I’m linking up with Holly and Mel to discuss weddings!!! As you all know I’m engaged and my big day is NOVEMBER 30, 2013 and according to my app that is 163 days away. You can read about my engagement, mega to do list, or my wedding binder that I made if you like. Since we haven’t actually jumped the broom (by the way anyone know where I can get one of those) I will sneak peak a few engagement shots!!! Enjoy!!!

Location- We will be married in my hometown at Holy Temple COGIC (not my home church)… They have purple carpet that matches my color scheme!!! The PARTY will be at a hotel… bar included… well bar funded my dad LOL

Bridal Party—8 bridesmaids, 8 groomsmen, 2 jr Bridesmaids, 2 jr groomsmen 3 flower girls, 3 hostesses, 1 male usher…. Wayyyy too many people. If I could take back the invites (and the people who guilted me into saying yes) I would but eh we will make it rock!

Colors—Purple dresses for my gals and grey suits for his guys

First Dance—Ummmm I’m undecided… any suggestions????

Honeymoon—He is planning that I don’t need the stress or the responsibility. I told him I want to be surprised, and I want something tropical *crosses my fingers and prays for a great honeymoon

 

What Would I Change?— Well my big day has not arrived but what I would do differently is not broadcast it for a few months and just enjoy him. I also would not be bullied into saying yes to every cousin that called me her favorite. LOL!!!

 

 

 

 

Side note I am loving my booty in these jeans... Sorry Im not sorry for saying that!!!

 

 

For more  pictures and info on us and our day check out our site

Time to grow up

What a world wind of emotions. It never ceases to amaze me how messy humans can be. My ex’s opinion of my engagement is null and void and was not a needed conversation to have… LOL it is actually funny though because people love to run and tell what I am doing so I guess I should be flattered. I will say this though. I am entering into a MARRIAGE this is my home and my family. ANYBODY that is not for this union is against and will be cut. I am at a place where God has blessed me and now I understand why friends are lost in the process. It is saddening that the friends who were all for me when I was chasing loser guys, gaining weight, and being unhappy are a no show now that my priorities have changed. I hate to say this but it’s like they want to see you doing bad. Oh well they will get no more of my attention. I love my family and we have mini me to raise, weight to lose, a wedding to plan and finance, and a lifetime to spend together…. HI HATERS!!!!! *flips hair and looks at left ring finger*

BREAKING NEWS!!!!!

SO I know it has been a while but here I am…. So much has happened where to start… I GOT ENGAGED!!!!! Woot woot (mid happy dance thinks Oh hell no I will not be a fat ass bride)…

So he proposed in front of my immediate family and  my line sister (I am a Zeta) at my favorite place to eat, Chillis, which is also where we had our first date!!!! *I scream*

This is us in the way to hang out... EVERYONE knew it was about to happen but me!!!!

He is not good with pictures!!!!

My girl Erin hooked me up with a Pintrest board (as if I didn’t have one LOL)… I found this really cute bridesmaid dress and we will see what the ladies think about it….

Yes the colors are purple and grey and I think this dress is AMAZING!!!!!

Guess more of my meals will have to look like this …

Im going to have to start leaving the cheese off probably

Because I am officially SWEATING FOR THE DRESS!!!! Yaaaaaay

Now I have heard that planning a wedding makes you lose friends but dam! I haven’t even been engaged a week and already people upset. My dear friend was very dry when I announced my engagement letting me know that she was at tailgating (after it had been said that no one could get dressed in time to be at the restaurant) but oh well I still sent her an email asking her to be a bridesmaid but I'm thinking she will get cut. I do not want anyone involved that is not happy for me. I mean geesh be a real friend and fake happiness to me and be jealous on your own time hefer! LOL…

Anywho here we are right after I said yes. I promise I will post a better pic of him but my baby just does not photograph well LOL…

So here we go follow me as I SWEAT FOR THE DRESS, and plan OUR BIG DAY!!!!!....